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The Great Debate

The Great Debate

Very few things actually require a binary choice

Except for On and Off, there are few things in life that are Either / Or.

There is almost always a middle option – more like 1,000,000 middle options, actually. 

But in the public square, we’re often pressured to choose one or the other. This-or-That.

This can be referred to as a false dichotomy (which is the cousin to limiting beliefs, which I covered here).

A false dichotomy is a fallacy that erroneously limits what options are available. The source of the fallacy lies not in an invalid form of inference but in a false premise.

It’s not that the choices are not valid choices, but that they are not the only choices:

  • Good or evil
  • Black or white
  • Democrat or Republican
  • Diet or overindulge
  • Immigration or homelessness
  • Mask or no mask
  • Rich or poor
  • Defund or defend

Until we accept that these complex challenges require complex answers, we will forever live in the great debate. 

Complex answers don’t fit well in Tweets or the 5 o’clock news. They don’t make great headlines or get claps on Medium. Because of this, we’re rarely offered the opportunity to discuss complex issues; people want the punchline. The quick answer.

They want the talking point so they can start their own avalanche of opinion.

We will never reach a consensus if we are pitted against each other. Compromise and conversation do not flourish in chaos.

Instead, consider that the correct answer may include:

  • It’s complicated 
  • It’s a tough choice
  • There is no right answer
  • The best of two bad choices
  • It will take work from both of us
  • There is no one solution 
  • What works best for you may not work best for me
  • A lot of smaller decisions will work better than a few big ones
  • We probably don’t have all the facts
  • It’s okay to disagree
  • I respect your perspective, but I see the problem differently 
  • I am hesitant to trust the mainstream sources
  • I haven’t reached a definitive position yet

Don’t get trapped into thinking you must choose from one or the other. Look for alternatives. They exist.

All 1,000,000 of them.

All the best,


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